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Archive for the ‘personal empowerment’ Category
Tuesday, January 5th, 2010
Secret #3 - Learn to Dance with Chaos.
We judge chaos as bad and wrong and we set up whole societies with laws, rules and regulations to minimize chaos and that is a good thing. Surely, living chaotically 24/7 would be overwhelming and unproductive. However, most have such fear of chaos that we hold ourselves back from some of the most beautiful positive chaotic experiences in life. Unfortunately, most people have developed a resistance to all chaos and we have replaced it with control. Being in control is good, and experiencing chaos is bad or so we are conditioned to think/believe.
The truth is you need to be willing to dance between the two in order to have a successful life. Often what is missing from peoples lives that is most important to them can only be accessed by dancing with chaos. Passion, creativity, wisdom and intimacy are some of life experiences that require a certain amount of chaos to fully experience. Avoid chaos and have difficulty experiencing so much of what brings personal fulfillment into your lives.
All change produces chaos. In order to change something in your life you must be willing to go through a period of chaos. It is easier to see chaos with bad changes (i.e., getting divorced, losing a child or losing your job) but likewise good changes also produce chaos.(i.e., getting married, having a child or starting a new job). Chaos isn’t bad, it is a necessary part of being able to change.
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Tags: Anxiety, change, Creativity, How to change, joy, Michaiel Bovenes, passion, Soul-utions
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Monday, January 4th, 2010
The second secret goes against the popular spiritual notion that simplicity is best and we should always seek the simple answer. There is a paradox of simplicity and complexity.
Secret #2 Allow Your Life to be ‘Complex’ Rather than Demand ‘Simplicity’.
You must think this is a typo and I meant to reverse the words, how can complexity be good for you? First of all, the word complex suggests intricate, detailed; it does not imply difficulty or struggle. Complexity requires you to be more conscious with your life. It promotes deeper thinking and provides the foundation for personal empowerment and positive growth.
The major reason to allow your life to be ‘complex’ is because… that is the nature of living life as an adult. Life is complex, it isn’t simple, have you noticed? The child inside of us wants everything to be simple. But if you are over the age of 10, then your life isn’t simple anymore so stop resisting and begin to accept complexity as a natural part of life. When you try to make your life simple, it ends up becoming much more difficult. It is a paradox.
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Tags: Adult, Alternative, Complexity, Lifestyle Choices, Mature behavior, Mental Health, personal change, secrets to change, Simplicity
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Sunday, January 3rd, 2010
In my 25 years of pursuing personal empowerment and conscious living, I’ve learned some pretty powerful lessons that have transformed my life. I often share these lessons with friends and clients and it always produces positive changes if they learn and practice these new ways of thinking, feeling and being.
This month, I will share with you a secret a day for 5 days, these secrets can expand your awareness and quickly change your perception of yourself and your life. When this happens you will shift and lift your vibration instantly opening you to new possibilities and more positive experiences to flow into your life. Please leave any feedback about these truths, because often many are the opposite of what we’ve been taught and conditioned to believe. Each one I have worked with and has changed my life dramatically
1. Be Responsible for the Positive Events in Your Life.
How often do we think of responsibility as a obligation when we’ve done something wrong. ” I gotta be responsible for this mess!” Start thinking of responsibility as a gift that leads to freedom. Begin by owning the successes you’ve created in your life and be responsible for them as well as the mess that needs to be cleaned up.
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Tags: Belief, change, Emotion, guidance, How to change, Soul-utions, wisdom
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Friday, January 1st, 2010
Close your eyes and allow yourself to receive a number in your mind from 1-9 then read the numbered message below to hear a message from your Soul on how you can create greater magic and miracles in this new decade 2010 and beyond. Note if you had two numbers come to mind go ahead and read both numbers.
1. Learn to Dance with Chaos - The secret and challenge of 2010 for you will be to understand the true nature of change and to build an alliance with chaos. All change produces chaos, small changes create a little chaos, larger changes, major chaos. People avoid chaos while trying to change. It doesn’t work. Learn how to reduce your fear of chaos and learn to dance with its rhythm and watch how procrastination ends and your life transforms. Excitement, enthusiasm, adventure and joy are all forms of positive chaos. Take time this year to reduce your fears while embracing chaos. You’ll make more profound changes that can transform your life.
2. Express Your Creativity - Begin a new creative project just for yourself, for the fun of it. Often our creativity is limited by approval. Do not try to win the approval of others and do not become entangled in the traps of perfection and control. True creativity is not neat and tidy, it is messy, let your ideas flow, write, sing, dance, paint, create something new. Let your mind receive the enchantment of the muses. Be amused with your own inherent creativity and let it flow bringing greater magic and miracles into your life. Guided meditation suggestion: The Rainbow Meditation
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